That’s how a recent discussion with my mom began. “It’s all your fault…” she said, with a dramatic pause long enough to make me question my actions over the past few weeks. What did I do? What could I have possibly done wrong?
“You got that modeling clay for your nephew for Christmas and now I’m [...]

I used to have a theory that if I gave 100%, and I received 125% back in return, that I couldn’t really accept the extra 25%. Where did it come from, who needs it more than me, aren’t I taking more than I deserve? If I’ve given 100%, and I receive it more - I [...]

According to Wikipedia, fear of public speaking affects 75% of the population. Getting up in front of a group of people can bring up multiple fears of rejection, being seen as stupid, insigificance, etc.
Yesterday I spoke on a few Fearless Living principles at the Northwest Coach Association monthly meeting. Somehow I got up in front [...]

The more I talk to my clients, the more I realize that most of us have some sense of worthlessness. For some, it’s tied to the bank account’s presentation of the total amount of money we have available. To others, it’s the number of people we interact with, or don’t. Regardless, we’re constantly looking for [...]

Love - I love this word.
A few months ago I took a big risk. I hadn’t dated since my divorce and I was really working on recreating my life. I got a new apartment, joined a great health club, had my great job, and had a full social calendar. I really wanted to share that [...]